I found a chill modded server that is trying to keep things calm and friendly. It is made for players who do not want speed runners or toxic behavior. It also says no griefing so people can actually build and play without stress.
They also do not allow tech mods or Create mod stuff. The server is pretty new so it feels like a fresh start.
They welcome anyone of any gender or race. It is 18 plus only and they want your age before you join. They use a voice chat mod so minors are not allowed and will get banned if they try to join.

