I found a small Minecraft Java server that is running on 1.20.1 with Fabric. It is a chill modded world with about 4 to 5 regular players.
They use a custom mod list that adds new monsters plus weapons armor furniture and more. The main idea is to explore and build a world that feels lived in with cozy bases shared towns and paths.
It is not a sweaty place and it is not PvP focused. People play at their own pace and it is more about relaxed teamwork and good vibes.
They also use proximity voice chat so you can talk while building or when you run into someone while exploring.
Cozy Modded Survival With Proximity VC
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOathwood Semi Vanilla Slow Cozy Life
Oathwood is a cozy semi vanilla server made for long term play. It feels like a calm place where people take their time and build a real home.
The server is about village life with light roleplay and Towny nations. You can join towns and work with others while the world keeps going.
Progression is earned with mcMMO and the pace stays relaxed. PvP is not the main thing here.
There is a player run diamond economy so trading matters. It seems like a welcoming spot for builders and adults who want chill survival.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPEternal SMP Chill Vanilla Survival
This is a small chill SMP that is all about survival and building cool stuff without drama. It is a simple vanilla style world and the players just want to relax and make bases farms and shops together.
The server is very anti grief. No griefing at all and no stealing and no lava grief. If you try it you get banned right away. The whole point is that you can build in peace and not have your stuff ruined.
Most people here like making epic bases mega farms and maybe a shopping district. Sometimes they do group projects and just hang out and talk and meme while they play. It feels like a tiny friend group not a giant random server.
There are usually a few players on in the evenings and weekends and they only want a small group of regulars. If you want lifesteal or chaos this is not it. If you just want to place blocks and chill with decent people this server fits that vibe.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP1.21 Java 16+ Themed Chill SMP
This is a chill 1.21.11 Java survival server that is hosted in the UK so it is really good for players in the UK and Europe. The server is 16 plus and most of the people here are 21 or older so it feels more mature and relaxed.
The world is split into big themed areas and the goal is to build huge immersive places. There is an ancient area with Aztec and Egypt style builds. There is an underground area called Greenland. There is a sci fi and magic style area called Extora. There is a medieval area called Latvia. There is a modern city called Metrovia. There is also an area with Asian style temples.
There are around twenty to twenty five active players and people just chill and play a lot of Minecraft together. There are no land claims and no griefing is allowed. There is no PVP and there are no plans to ever reset the world.
The server uses a few gamerule changes and plugins but it still feels very close to vanilla. There is no tp and no home command. You do need a voice chat mod to join because the server uses voice chat a lot.
If you like relaxed long term worlds with themed build areas and older players this server is made for that kind of play.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPSnowFallSMP 16+ Chill Semi-Vanilla
SnowFallSMP is a small semi vanilla survival server that is made for 16 plus players who just want a calm place to play.
The world is meant to be long term and it is not planned to reset so you can build big projects and not worry they will disappear. The server is not focused on pvp anarchy or griefing so it is more about building and hanging out.
The community is trying to stay tight knit with players who have similar interests. The staff team is active and they respond when you need them to check something. There are simple rules and a short application so they can get to know you a bit and make sure you know the important info before you join.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPAserion SMP Peaceful Co‑Op Survival
Aserion SMP is a small peaceful server where players try to build a unified world together. The whole idea is that everyone works on each others builds and helps out instead of fighting.
The rules are really focused on being kind. Killing should almost never happen. Stealing is not allowed. Griefing is totally banned. So if you are tired of joining servers where your stuff gets wrecked this place is the opposite of that.
Right now the server is still a work in progress. That means things can change in the future as the community grows and figures out what is fun. You have to apply to join either with a video or a well written answer so the owner can keep the server calm and friendly.
If you just want a quiet survival world and a small group of people who like to build together Aserion SMP feels like that kind of server.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP