I found a Realm that is made for people who want a long term survival world. It is relaxed and friendly and it is meant to last. It stays vanilla focused but it has a few extra things that add more depth.
There is a custom currency and NPC shops. You can also do optional upgrades like extra hearts and faster movement speed. Players can run their own shops and protect them and set trust.
You can build solo or team up to make towns and big group bases. They do regular community events like building contests and casual PvP tournaments. PvP is always optional and just for fun.
A gravestone system helps keep your items safe after you die. The rules are clear and simple with no hacking griefing stealing or unwanted PvP.
Most of the community is adults with busy schedules so there are no activity requirements. You play when you want. Discord is required for talking and event announcements.
Adults Only Chill Long Term Survival
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPThe Garden SMP Semi Vanilla Crossplay
The Garden is a semi vanilla survival multiplayer server that tries to keep the normal Minecraft feeling but adds extra stuff to make it more fun.
It supports cross play between Java and Bedrock Edition but Java is recommended for the best experience. The rules are strict about no hacking no griefing no stealing and no nonconsensual PvP.
The community is meant to be close knit and staff removes toxicity and drama fast. People are encouraged to make big projects like towns and shopping areas and there are sometimes events with prizes. There is also a Discord with lots of chat channels and it supports the Simple Voice Chat mod.
It is not pay to win and everything in the store can be earned in game. Ranks are bought with in game money and you earn money by doing things like leveling up jobs completing milestones and tasks or running a shop. Other features include McMMO skills art maps and resizing your character. There is also a Valentines build competition where you rent a plot and judges pick the top builds for prize packs.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP