I found a completely vanilla Bedrock SMP that is looking for chill players. The community seems really dedicated and friendly and they like to chat.
The owner sounds serious about keeping the rules fair and keeping the server fun. It stays true to normal Minecraft with only a realm management tool for rules and a scoreboard for tracking.
You can build and you can also PVP. Griefing and stealing are allowed too so it can get wild. A new season is starting tomorrow so it is a good time to join.

