Lavender SMP is a whitelist Java server on 1.21.11 and it runs on hard mode. It is 18+ and lgbtq+ friendly and it feels like a close knit group that likes building and talking.
It uses Simple Voice Chat so you can hop in when people are chatting and just hang out. There are quality of life add ons like AFK Display and Anti Enderman Grief plus fun extras like More Mob Heads Player Head Drops and Mini Blocks.
It also has DiscordSRV and Double Shulker Shells so storage runs feel a bit nicer.
