I found a new Minecraft server called InfiniteSMP and it feels like it is made for people who want a long term survival world.
It is small and community driven so it is more like hanging out with a friendly group instead of being stuck in a huge public mess.
The vibe is chill and people are into shared builds and making a world that actually lasts.
InfiniteSMP 1.21.11 Chill Long Term SMP
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPGenuine Long Term Vanilla SMP
MyntonSMP is a long term vanilla survival server with a real community and around 70 players. People build towns and the spawn area is built up too.
It is not anarchy and it is not strict roleplay. The point is freedom and meeting other players and letting stories happen naturally.
There are no land claims and no forced factions. You can build trade explore and team up. PvP can happen but it needs a clear reason and random killing and griefing are not allowed.
The server uses Simple Voice Chat so people actually talk. It runs on Java Edition 1.21.10 and the rules are community driven for players who want a stable SMP.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP