I found GamerHub Towny and it feels like a chill Towny SMP that started out as a streaming server and now it is trying to grow bigger.
Griefing and stealing are not allowed and the world never resets so your builds can stay for the long run. The community seems welcoming and ready to help new players and a lot of players are in the Oceania region.
The server leans mostly player economy with ranks you can get using in game money. It also has Dynmap player warps and player shops plus a sell only server shop. You can do jobs and use MCMMO and there is a player built market too.
They say they get around 25 daily active players and it gets most active when the owner streams on twitch with 8 or more online sometimes. The listed version is 1.21.10 or similar.
Chill No Reset Towny SMP
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPLumaMC Survival Towny Java and Bedrock
I found LumaMC and it is a survival multiplayer server that stays close to vanilla but adds plugins that make it feel more alive. You can claim land and even protect chests so your builds feel safe. It also has Towny so people can make towns and live together.
The worlds are meant to last and there are also resource worlds that reset so you can keep mining and gathering without ruining the main place. There is a player economy with shops plus player warps and a set home command. You can also use private vault storage.
There are jobs and quests and chat games and in game ranks. You can get crate keys and there are custom armor and tools. It also has custom items plus paintings plus fishing plus furniture and events.
They run anti lag plugins and anti xray and the staff is active. Mobs can be resized big or small and there is even a world map view. The server supports Java and Bedrock on 1.21.11 and they say the community is friendly and welcoming. English only and they allow minimum cussing.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP