I found a small SMP server called Mace through a friend and it feels really chill.
It does not have a lot of players right now but the staff take care of it really well. It feels like a nice place to just play and hang out so I would recommend giving it a try.
Mace SMP The Chill Small Server
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOnion SMP Crossplay Survival 1.21.11
Onion SMP is a survival server that runs on 1.21.11 and it is crossplay so more people can join together.
It has claims so your builds can be protected. Keep inventory is on so dying is not as painful. There is rtp so you can get away from spawn fast.
It also has combat log protection so fights do not get ruined. You can make teams too so it is easy to play with friends.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPFresh Bedrock Vanilla No Claims
Shakcraft -570 is a new Minecraft Bedrock server that is trying to find some chill players to play with.
It is grief free and it stays vanilla with no plugins. There are no land claims so you kind of just play fair and respect other peoples builds.
PvP is allowed but only if both players agree to it. It sounds like a simple server where you can just survive and hang out.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill Small Server Looking For Friends
This is a small Minecraft server with about five people and they want a few more to join.
The vibe is super relaxed. You can play and talk and just enjoy the game with no pressure.
It is on version 1.21.11.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCozy-Craft Peaceful Semi-Vanilla SMP
This server is a really calm survival SMP that is all about building and chilling.
It is semi vanilla and uses only a few plugins so the game still feels like normal Minecraft. There is no PvP so you do not have to worry about getting attacked by other players. You can just focus on your base and projects.
The world is meant to last a long time so it is good for people who like long term worlds and big builds. The community is peaceful and it feels like a place where you can relax after school and just play.
If you want a simple server with survival and building and a cozy vibe this one is pretty nice.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPPGMC World Survival Creative Vanilla SMP
This server is called PGMC World and it is a simple place where you can pick how you want to play.
You can join a survival world if you want the normal Minecraft challenge. You can also join a creative world if you just want to build stuff fast. There is also a vanilla world for people who like the original feel.
You switch with commands like slash server survival or slash server creative or slash server vanilla. It feels like the server is made for players who want a chill time and like to swap between different playstyles.
I think this server is good if you like basic Minecraft without a lot of extra crazy things and just want to play with other people in a simple way.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPStormy Lagoon Crossplay SMP
Stormy Lagoon is an SMP server that works on both Java and Bedrock.
It is made for people who just want to join and play survival with others. You can hop on with whatever edition you like and still be on the same world.
The owner talks with players on discord and you can find people to chill with or build with. It feels like a place that is trying to be a small friendly community and not some giant network.
If you want a simple survival server that supports both Java and Bedrock this one does that and keeps it pretty relaxed.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPStormy Lagoon SMP Crossplay Survival
Stormy Lagoon is a simple SMP server where you can join from both Java and Bedrock.
It looks like a place to just hop on and survive with other people. You can play however you want and just chill and explore and build.
The server feels like it is more about crossplay and just hanging out instead of tons of crazy plugins. You can join from your PC or your phone so it is easy to play with friends.
If you want a basic survival world with other players and you like both Java and Bedrock this server is made for that.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP