I found a casual Bedrock Realm that keeps things mostly vanilla with a few changes that just make the base game feel better.
It has quests that give rewards so you can feel real progression while you play. The big thing here is player driven lore and events where everyone gets involved.
You can start your own city state and keep it peaceful and build it up or you can go the other way and start wars. It feels like they want both builders and PVP players to have their moment.
They also keep a few rules so it stays fun and fair without killing the freedom.
