I found a server called Relheim and it feels like a chill place to join and start playing.
If you message the player skeppygamer they say they will provide you with anything you need. You can also choose to grind for your stuff yourself if you want it the normal way.
It seems pretty welcoming for new players and anyone who just wants to hop in and play.
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GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOathwood Semi Vanilla Slow Cozy Life
Oathwood is a cozy semi vanilla server made for long term play. It feels like a calm place where people take their time and build a real home.
The server is about village life with light roleplay and Towny nations. You can join towns and work with others while the world keeps going.
Progression is earned with mcMMO and the pace stays relaxed. PvP is not the main thing here.
There is a player run diamond economy so trading matters. It seems like a welcoming spot for builders and adults who want chill survival.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPStormy Lagoon SMP Crossplay Survival
Stormy Lagoon SMP is a Minecraft survival world that works on both Java and Bedrock.
I joined and it feels like a small server where people can just play and chill. You can join on PC or on phone which is really nice because more friends can play together.
The server is set up as an SMP style world. You just join and start surviving and building with other players. There is not a bunch of extra info or crazy stuff so it feels simple and easy to understand.
If you want a crossplay SMP where Java and Bedrock can be in the same world then this server does that and keeps it pretty relaxed.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCozy-Craft Chill Semi-Vanilla SMP
This server is called Cozy Craft and it feels like a chill survival world with a small group of people.
It is a survival smp that keeps things pretty simple. The server is semi vanilla and uses minimal plugins so it feels like normal Minecraft and not a crazy mod pack. The focus is just playing survival and building and exploring.
The community is meant to be chill and community driven. There are around 15 to 20 active players so it is not empty but also not huge and overwhelming. It is made for people who want a clean long term survival experience without a bunch of extra stuff.
If you just want to play regular Minecraft with other people in a relaxed way this server fits that really well.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCät SMP 1.21.1 Cozy Queer Community
Cät SMP is a small Minecraft server that is all about community and feeling like you belong. The server is chill and not focused on grinding all day. People here just want to hang out and build a nice space together.
The world border is pretty small at around 2k blocks. This means players live near each other so it is easy to meet up and interact. It still gives you room to build your own base without feeling trapped.
The server has been running on and off for about six years and this is the fourth version. The owners have a lot of experience making a fun place to play. This new world is a fresh start with only a few old players coming back so new people can join and fit in fast.
The community is very focused on being friendly and welcoming especially to queer players. Many people who played here before stayed friends for years. Right now there are not many members so it is a good time to join early and grow with the server.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPMistyMC Long Term Vanilla SMP
MistyMC is a chill vanilla SMP that is meant to last a long time. The world does not reset so everything you build can stay. It feels like a place where you can just relax and play survival for as long as you want.
The server is fully vanilla so there are no extra game modes or weird plugins. It is just normal Minecraft survival. Both Java and Bedrock players can join so it is easy to get all your friends on no matter what they play on.
The community is still growing and they want more people to join and make friends. It sounds like the kind of server where you can hang out build bases and make memories with other players.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP