I found a hosting option called Stellara Servers and it seems made for people who want a Minecraft server that runs smooth even with mods and plugins.
They talk a lot about fast hardware so you get low lag and stable TPS. It also supports modpacks plus plugins and custom jars so it sounds flexible.
Setup is instant so you can get going fast and the control panel is supposed to be simple to use. They also say support is helpful and responds fast.
There is a 60 percent off first month deal with the code REDDIT60. They also mention helping you pick a plan if you want around 10 to 20 players.
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I found Xapros SMP and it is a chill vanilla survival server for adults only. It has players from lots of places so it feels like someone is online at almost any time.
The world is meant to be long term since it started in January 2025 and they say they will not reset. It is a good place for huge projects and megabuilds. Peak time looks busy with around 20 to 25 players online.
It runs on Fabric so redstone and farms act like singleplayer. They also added BlazeandCave advancements if you want extra goals.
There are no land claims but griefing and theft are not allowed. There is a tool to inspect blocks if something goes missing. Travel is easier with a Nether ice boat highway and there is a nice spawn plus a diamond shopping area. There is also no world border so you can live super far away if you want.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP