Headrest SMP is a Paper survival server on 1.20.10 with a bunch of quality of life plugins and world upgrades like Terralith and extra structures. It has an active community and it is built around meeting people and making stories.
The server is roleplay focused with lore and factions. People build together and also clash in wars when it happens. PvP is more of a side thing but fights can still matter especially with faction drama.
There is a safe zone at spawn where players can build shops and hang out. The server also uses Simple VC so players can talk in game if they want.
Some of the plugins include no elytra during combat plus combat logging protection plus sit. It runs on dedicated hardware with 20GB RAM and a 5800x3d CPU to help keep things smooth.
