This server is called CaféCraft and it is a custom modded SMP that feels really cozy. It is made by a small dev team that actually plays on it and they focus on exploration and progression instead of rushing to the end.
The world is meant to last a long time so it is not one of those servers that reset every month. They have a hand picked modpack with original advancements and some light lore that makes it feel like you are actually living in the world.
The community goal is to stay small but active and they want people who like to build explore and tinker. The vibe is friendly and collaborative and they do not run pay to win stuff so progression feels fair.
They say the modpack is pretty big but also optimized. For good performance they recommend a computer with at least 16 GB of RAM.

