HighTide SMP is a brand new 18 plus survival server that just opened and it is trying to stay tight knit so people actually talk and connect.
It is whitelist only so you have to apply and they want trusted players who will stick around. It supports both Java and Bedrock so you can join from different devices.
The server does game nights and movie nights plus event nights and even drinking nights. PvP can be toggled on or off so duels are your choice.
It also has a graves system so you do not lose your items as easily. Tree Chop helps you get wood faster. Dynmap lets you see the world on a site. CoreProtect is there to stop griefing and chest refills happen after five minutes so other players can loot too.
They plan to start the first Saturday once they hit 30 members so joining early matters if you want to be part of the first crew.
