I found a calm survival server that is all about cozy vibes and taking your time. It is made for people who just want to build and chill without getting bothered.
There is no PvP so you do not have to worry about random fights. The world does not reset so your builds can stay forever and you can keep coming back.
It also says no pay to win and it runs on both Java and Bedrock. It has some vanilla plus tweaks and a friendly community feel.

