I found a small survival multiplayer server run by a group based in Australia with players from other places too. It is an 18 plus place so they want mature people who just want to hang out and play in their free time.
The server is vanilla and it is mainly about building and redstone. People team up to make cool bases and big farms together.
There is no land claim but they can rollback damage and ban players who do not respect others. They also use some social mods like proximity chat a live map and distant horizons. These are meant to make it more fun without changing the vanilla gameplay.
The group has been hosting SMP servers for almost five years. This world is a few months old and they are still bringing in new players.
Australia Vanilla SMP Seeking 18+ Builders

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRattata SMP Pure Vanilla Community

Rattata SMP is a mature community survival server that tries to stay as close to vanilla as possible. It runs on Paper and it is open to both Java and Bedrock players.
The rules are super simple. Do not grief and use common sense. There is no teleport and there are no changed loot tables or custom world generation so it feels like normal Minecraft.
It is set to hard difficulty and it has 33 percent player sleep. There is a live map and the server uses a whitelist. Simple Voice Mod is optional and CoreProtect is available with /co i.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPMyChunk Creative Builders With Free WorldEdit

MyChunk is a creative sandbox server that feels made for builders who want a stable place to work.
Everyone gets access to WorldEdit right away so you can build fast without hitting a paywall.
It also has a MyWorld system where you get your own space and you control who can enter and who can help you build.
The server focuses on strong grief protection so your builds stay safe unless you allow someone in.
You can also upload your own maps and keep building on worlds you already started. It supports version 1.21.X and 26.X and it works for both Java and Bedrock players.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPHermitcraft Style Vanilla Plus Crossplay SMP

I found NisseSMP and it is a HermitCraft inspired survival server with a vanilla plus feel. It supports both Java and Bedrock crossplay so more people can play together.
The vibe is built on trust and fair play. There is no griefing and no PvP so it is more about building and surviving with friends.
There are no land claims so you are expected to respect other players builds. The server also has a player driven economy with shops trading and virtual currency.
It is open access with no whitelist. They also have a live map and the community looks active with around 40 to 60 players online at peak times.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCrafted Survival Semi Vanilla SMP
casual long term worldcommunity-driven servergolden shovel claimsplayer shop cultureresource world hopping
I found a semi vanilla SMP server that is all about community and building cool stuff while still feeling like real survival.
It has a diamond based economy so people trade with diamonds and run player shops. There is also a shops menu so you can browse stores fast or set up your own.
Claims are a big deal here since you can protect your builds with golden shovels. It is PvE focused with no griefing and it also does not use keep inventory.
Java and Bedrock players can play together. There is a live world map you can check in your browser and separate resource worlds so the main world stays clean. You can also earn ranks and vote rewards and there are weekly events with a friendly community.
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