I found Fools Ambrosia and it is a small modded server that is really big on story. The world is about mortals and immortals and how worship made gods survive. Wars happened and new gods rose up and almost everything fell apart except for four gods who made something new which is you.
This server goes roleplay first and gameplay second. They do scheduled events for different timezones and some are chill and some are heavy on lore. Events can be made by players or by admins and they really want everyone to get a chance to matter in the story.
It runs a lightweight Neoforge modpack with around 160 mods and it is meant to work on weak computers too. They also talk about a custom built server backend and an admin team that stays active and keeps improving things. The mod list includes Origins with 16 choices and Biomancy 2 for the weird flesh stuff.
Fools Ambrosia Modded RP Lore Wars

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill Modded Friends Server With Voice Chat

I found a small laid back Minecraft server run by a few friends who want more people to play with them.
It is modded and the mod list is curated so it adds lots of stuff like new monsters and weapons and armor plus mounts and resources and furniture and cosmetics.
Even with the mods it is built to run well. It uses Fabric and it is meant to be easier on lower spec PCs.
The main vibe is exploring and building and discovering things together. It is not competitive and it is not for people who only want to play solo.
People talk in Discord and the server also uses proximity voice chat so you can run into someone and just talk while you explore or build or team up.
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