I found a modded Minecraft network called TMW that is for English speaking players who want a community. It has a few servers running different modpacks and they say more are on the way.
The server list includes All the Mods 10 and All the Mods 10 To the Sky plus All the Mons and GT New Horizons and NanoMagic and Stoneblock 4 and Submerged 2. It feels like a place where you can swap packs when you get bored and still keep playing with people.
They host in the EU and they share their machine specs like a Ryzen 9950X with 192GB DDR5 and Samsung 990 Pro SSD storage plus a big backup server. They also talk about a smooth experience and playing with friends or meeting new ones.
