I found a funky little modded server that is meant to be chill and kind of chaotic. It uses a thrown together modpack made for just having fun and hopping on whenever you feel like it.
There is a live 3D map view you can open in your browser so you can see what is going on in the world.
The vibe is very unserious. It has guns plus Create with addons plus Immersive Engineering and more. The owner also takes mod suggestions so if you want something specific you can ask.
The server is located in Germany but everyone speaks English so far.
