SoulCrusher is a Java and Bedrock lifesteal server where fighting other players actually matters.

You can gain hearts by killing players or by crafting hearts. When you die you lose a heart and if you lose all your hearts you get a temp ban until someone revives you.

It is free to play and the community is still growing so it feels easy to jump in.

The rules are pretty strict about fair play. No hacking or exploits and no doxxing or 18 plus content. No spam and no excessive language and no advertising. They also do not allow alts or combat logging.

Discord has rules too like no sharing personal info and follow Discord ToS and the law. Spam goes in spam channels and ads go only where they belong. No 18 plus content there either.