Kanzo MC is a survival server that feels pretty chill and welcoming. It is made for people who just want to build farm and explore without getting messed with all the time.
It supports Java and Bedrock crossplay so you can play from PC console or mobile. It also allows cracked Minecraft so you can still join even if you do not have premium.
The server has home and chest protection so your builds and items stay safe. There are player shops and trading plus towns jobs and an economy so you can grind and make your own place in the world.
It runs on version 1.21.10 and up for both Java and Bedrock.
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I found a hardcore server called Last Breath that feels like it wants you to actually stay in the same world and care about what you do.
It is community first and the whole point is that progress matters and your builds mean something. People are supposed to remember you even after you log off or die.
The server is community ran and players vote on what gets added. There is also a leaderboard and player count you can check and it talks about custom plugins too.
You can join on Java or Bedrock.
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Shinyvale is a smaller and newer SMP that feels like it is built around making money and trading. It has commands like sell and shop plus player shops and player warps so you can set up your own spots and find other players fast.
The world is huge with a 60 million world border so there is tons of space to explore and build. It also lets both Bedrock and Java players play together so more friends can join in.
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