The Garden is a semi vanilla survival multiplayer server that keeps the normal vanilla feel but adds extra features to make it more fun.
It supports cross play between Java and Bedrock though Java is recommended for the best time. The rules are clear and they do not allow hacking griefing stealing or nonconsensual PvP.
The community is meant to be close and friendly and they shut down toxicity and drama fast. People are encouraged to build group projects like towns and shopping areas and there are sometimes events with prizes.
It is not pay to win. Ranks are earned by getting in game money and you can make money from jobs milestones and tasks or by running a shop. There are also extra features like McMMO skills art maps and even resizing your character plus support for the Simple Voice Chat mod.
The Garden Chill Semi Vanilla SMP
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I found a really chill Towny server called GamerHub Towny. It is pretty new and it started as a server for streaming but now it is trying to grow into a bigger community.
The world has no resets and the rules are simple. Griefing and stealing are not allowed so you can build and relax without worrying.
It has an ingame ranking system that uses ingame money. There is dynmap so you can see the world. You can use player warps and player shops. There is a sell only server shop too.
Jobs are on the server and MCMMO is included. It usually has a few players online but when the owner streams on Twitch it can hit 10 or more.
It supports version 1.21.10 or similar and it also has a Bedrock port.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP