I found the V+ SMP and it is like vanilla Minecraft but expanded so you can still join with a normal install.
The server focuses on improved vanilla features and a bunch of quality of life improvements.
People also make geo political towns and nations so it feels like players are building a whole world together.
V+ Vanilla SMP Launching Soon
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPPartyRealms – Minecraft Reimagined With Rebalanced Systems
PartyRealms offers Minecraft reimagined as a fully modified experience. The server focuses on enhancing the game by rebalancing many existing systems. You can expect gameplay that feels familiar yet fresh, with adjustments aimed at improving how different parts of the game work together. Additional information, including the community rules, is available through their official resources linked by the server.
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