I found this server called The New Dawn SMP and it feels like a chill place if you like real survival and actually building cool stuff.
It is a vanilla plus Hermit style survival server. The whole thing is about creativity and working together on builds. They really want players to help shape the world and make big projects happen.
The server is in its first season right now and they are looking for players who are 16 or older. It supports both Java and Bedrock crossplay so you can join no matter which one you use.
The vibe is more about collaboration than chaos and it sounds like a place where your ideas and your base actually matter.
