I found an EU lifesteal anarchy server called MinecraftOffline. It is about fighting and surviving where killing players can give you more hearts and dying makes you lose hearts.
If you run out of hearts you get banned. New players get a 1 hour grace period so they will not lose hearts right away.
It has simple commands like setting a home and sending teleport requests. PvP is taken serious because commands are blocked during fights and combat logging gets punished with a killable NPC that can drop your stuff.
There is also a vote skip night command. They track playtime kills and deaths and you can get rewards at milestones. There is an in game shop where vote tokens can buy custom name colors and custom MOTDs.
They also try to stop extreme speed cheats and cut down the worst chat spam but it is not perfect.
EU Lifesteal Anarchy With Combat Lock
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPDistant Lands Semi Anarchy Survival PvP
Distant Lands is a survival server that drops you into a big random spawn on a huge world that never resets. It feels like you are always walking into new places and you never know who built a base nearby.
The server is semi anarchy so raiding and griefing can happen. The big rule is no hacking so stuff like x ray and fly hacks are not allowed and they watch for it. It makes fights feel more fair since you win by skill.
PvP is the main thing here. You get in game money for killing other players and there is a bounty system so you can put a target on someone and turn the server into a hunt.
There is also a global player shop system. You can buy and sell items through a shared market and use your money to gear up for the next battle.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP