Eventide SMP is a brand new Minecraft server that just released. It is cross platform and it runs a semi vanilla survival style with only a few quality of life plugins.
It is whitelisted so you have to apply to get in. The server is built around trust and it aims for a mature respectful community that wants to stick around for a long term world.
There are active events to join and the economy is player driven with shops and trading like Hermitcraft. If you like community survival and steady progress this server is trying to be that kind of place.
