I found a modded server called Mech Rehabilitated that is built for a fun and friendly small community. It sounds like the kind of place you hop on after work or classes and just chill with people.
The modpack is huge with over 300 mods so there is a lot to do. The vibe is exploration and looting giant structures then fighting bosses and chasing that infinite power feeling.
If you are more of a humble farmer type there are lots of cooking recipes too. The post mentions mods like Create Alexs Mobs and Caves Terramity Farmers Delight with a bunch of addons Cataclysm Etched and Littlepictureframes for community movie nights.
The server just came back with a brand new version of the modpack and a clean slate. To join you fill out a short whitelist form and they review it.
Mech Rehabilitated Modded Adventure Reloaded
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This is a small Minecraft community that feels really cozy and kind of epic at the same time. It is all about creativity lore and friendships and not about random chaos.
The server is modded with All The Mods 9 so it is a heavy pack and there is a lot of stuff to do and explore. The playstyle is SMP with world building and lore so people work together and build stories and towns instead of just rushing and quitting.
There is a spawn shop and a player made economy. Players trade diamonds gold emeralds and other stuff so it feels like a real marketplace. PvP is turned on but griefing is not allowed so you can fight but you still respect each other. There are also bounties which makes PvP feel more like a game and not just toxic.
The End has an extra boss called the Chaos Dragon so there are big team fights where people group up and try to beat it together. The server also runs events and giveaways to keep things interesting.
They ask everyone to read the rules in the discord so people know how to behave. Builders explorers storytellers and leaders all fit here because the server wants people who help shape the world and the lore instead of ruining it.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRipley’s Modded Adult Whitelist World
This is a small modded server run by an adult who wants a world that feels really connected. Players are invited to make community builds that actually matter and fit together instead of random stuff everywhere.
The modpack is pretty heavy and needs a good amount of ram but the gameplay still feels close to normal Minecraft. It is like vanilla plus with lots of quality of life and decorative mods. The big difference is the Create mod and some extra tools for building.
One of the main goals on this server is to build a central bank and use Create Numismatics to run a real player economy. People can work on community projects and almost treat them like government contracts and grants which sounds super fun if you like building for a purpose.
The server is whitelist only and meant for mature players. There is no strict age number but everyone needs to be respectful. The rules are simple. No theft. No griefing. PvP is only allowed when both players agree. And do not be a jerk to others.
If you want a calm modded world with a focus on community builds and an economy that grows with the server this place looks really cool.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPSurvival Server With 157 Fabric Mods
This is a Minecraft survival world that runs a big modpack with 157 mods. The modpack is made with Fabric and it is for Java 1.21.1.
The modpack is shared in their community so everyone plays with the same setup. One of the admins is named Aerotaker and they help run the server.
The world is survival so you have to gather resources and survive with all the mods turned on. It feels like a regular world but way more crazy because of all the extra content.
If you like modded Minecraft and want a survival style world with a lot of mods this server is made for that.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP