I found Ratchy SMP and it is a survival server with lifesteal and land claim.
Spawn is protected so you can load in and not get messed with right away.
They do a server event every week or at least most weeks.
Sometimes it can be queued for maintenance so just be ready for that.
Ratchy SMP Lifesteal Survival With Claims
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPShort Term Lifesteal PvP SMP
This is a short term lifesteal style SMP that is all about PvP. Players fight each other and the whole server is focused on combat and tension.
To join you fill out a small application first. The owners review it and then invite you to their discord server if you get in.
The only mod you need is Simple Voice Chat so people can talk in game while they play. It makes fights and team stuff feel more real and fun.
The server looks like it is for players who like fast action and do not want a super long season. It is more about intense moments and battles than grinding forever.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP