I found IronVail and it is a pure vanilla Minecraft server for people who want the real survival feel. There are no teleport commands and no home command. There are also no land claims so you have to pick a spot build it up and protect it yourself.
It is not meant to be an anarchy place. Cheating like flying or x ray is not allowed and they use automatic anti cheat to help stop it. Profanity is strongly discouraged.
It has a 25 percent sleep feature so night can be skipped when only some players sleep. The server is also tuned for players with higher ping so exploring feels smoother.
Java and Bedrock players can both join which makes it easy to play with friends on different devices.
