I found a Minecraft Realm that was made recently by a group of friends. They are looking for more players to join and play with them.
It seems like a simple Realm where you just join in and hang out with the group. They also have a Discord for everyone who joins but the links are posted somewhere else.
New Realm Looking For Players

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPHelp Build Our Growing City

I found a server where people are trying to build up a city together.
You join and then you pick the Earth SMP option to get in.
The main vibe is expanding the city with more builds and more ideas. If you want to help you can message the owner on reddit chat to team up.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPProsperia Vanilla Plus SMP No P2W

Prosperia is a long term Vanilla plus survival server that tries to keep things balanced and fair. It is built around progression and a community that actually talks and builds together.
There is no pay to win stuff and no unfair advantages. Everything is earned in game and the server avoids store items that would break survival.
The server gets frequent updates and the development stays active. Big changes and new systems get decided with community votes. It also runs a carefully tuned set of plugins that focus on quality and stability for long term play.
It just updated to 1.21.10 and keeps refining systems so the experience stays smooth and future proof.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOutatime Gamers 30+ Modded SMP

This server is made for older gamers who feel weird playing with kids. It is for people around 30 or older like Millennials Xennials and Gen X.
The server feels super chill. People work on builds together and share stuff and just talk about random things. It is not sweaty or super hardcore. It is more like a hangout where you also play Minecraft.
They use Java 1.21.10 and it is mostly vanilla but with some quality of life mods. Stuff like Animal Pens Comforts and Gravestones. So it still feels like normal Minecraft but a bit easier and nicer.
The community wants casual and friendly players. People who do not have time to play all day but still want a place to relax and game with others around their age.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill Modded Adventure With Proximity Chat

This server is a small chill Java world run by a few friends and they are looking for more people who are 18 or older. It is not sweaty or competitive at all. Everyone plays to relax and hang out and just enjoy Minecraft together.
The whole focus is on going on adventures as a group. People like to explore the world together or team up for different trips. It is more about the journey than about speedrunning or flexing builds.
They use proximity voice chat so talking feels super natural. You might run into someone while exploring and just start talking or you can chat while building or planning the next adventure. It makes the world feel alive and like people actually live there.
The server is all about enjoying time with others and discovering stuff together and building a world that feels lived in. If that kind of calm adventure vibe sounds good then this is the type of place you would probably like.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
