I found a server where death actually matters a lot. You get one life and if you die you are banned forever. Your stuff stays on the ground and your base stays in the world so someone else can take it.
It is an anarchy server with no rules. There are no protected zones and no resets. The world just keeps going even when people get wiped.
Every player you see could be a friend or the one who ends your run. When someone dies everyone sees it and that makes it super intense.
It runs on Java 1.21.1 and Bedrock can join too using Geyser.
One Life Hardcore Anarchy Permanent Ban
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP1.21.11 Lifesteal Anarchy No Resets
I found a server called MinecraftOffline that runs on 1.21.11 and it is all about lifesteal anarchy
The world is permanent and they say there are no resets so whatever happens will stay in the history of the map
It also uses custom written plugins so the gameplay has unique twists and it is hosted in Finland which should feel nice for European players who want low latency
They also list reasonable hardware and a 1 Gbit network so it sounds like they care about keeping the server running smoothGG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP