I found Anarchy.ae and it is a long term vanilla survival world where you can do your own thing. The map does not do seasons and it does not reset so stuff can actually have history.
It is semi anarchy so there are no claims and no land protection. You can get into conflict and your base can be found. It is still moderated so it stays playable and fair and not just a grief only wasteland.
It is not pay to win and there are no kits or store advantages. It supports both Java and Bedrock and they try to keep crossplay fair by blocking certain exploits and unfair movement.
There are a few quality of life commands to cut down on boring stuff. The server runs on dedicated hardware in Germany and they do regular backups for stability.
Semi Anarchy Vanilla With No Resets
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPFarlands SMP – Trust Based Vanilla Hermitcraft Style Server
Farlands SMP is a whitelisted vanilla survival world focused on giving you the full unmodified Minecraft experience. The server runs on Fabric but does not change gameplay, and there are no teleport commands, encouraging players to use natural travel methods and in game mechanics. All vanilla farms and mechanics are allowed and will work, with no limits on redstone, plots, or required playtime. There is no plot or chest protection and no AFK time limits, and the community even supports keeping AFK players spawned so long running farms can stay active. The server has almost no formal rules beyond having fun and respecting the trust based environment, and it is not intended to be an anarchy server. New members are carefully selected to ensure a healthy, like minded community that enjoys a singleplayer style world shared with others. Farlands SMP was created by players inspired by Hermitcraft who wanted a similar experience without artificial boundaries. The current community is based mainly in Europe and North America, and the server machine is hosted in Germany.
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