I found EverythingMinecraft and it is a classic survival server that is whitelisted so it feels more secure and friendly.
You have to do email verification and they say it filters out most trolls. It is meant for people who just want to play survival and build and explore without a bunch of extra stuff.
The server has player profiles and a database tied to your account. They also talk about leaderboards and more features coming soon. You can jump in and make your mark and you do not need Discord to play.
Whitelisted Classic Survival With Profiles
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Fewer Network is a Minecraft server with multiple gamemodes to explore. Play on a custom SMP with a lifesteal twist or jump into a custom box PvP arena to test your combat skills. The server hosts special events with real payouts, giving players a chance to compete and earn rewards. Friendly staff are available every day to help you out whenever you need assistance. You can also take part in videos created by the server’s content creators, becoming a part of the community’s projects and recordings. Join to see what the team has imagined and what new features they will bring in the future.
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