I found Rainbow Unity and it is an SMP that just updated to 1.21.11. It feels like a place where you can settle in and actually stay for a while.
You can claim land so your builds feel safe. The server pushes you to grow with a rankup system and perks so you always have something to work toward.
There are quests to do and custom items to chase. You can open crates for rare gear and pick up daily rewards which makes logging in feel worth it.
If you like building an empire and grinding upgrades with other players around this server is trying to be that kind of home.
