I found a long term survival server made for adults who want a world that does not reset. It feels steady and like your time matters.
People play different ways. Some go for huge build projects. Some mess with redstone. Some just want a simple home that stays there.
The vibe is relaxed and friendly with lots of joking around. It seems like the kind of place you can log on after a long day and just chill.
It stays close to vanilla and only has a few quality of life tweaks. Java and Bedrock players can both join. You need to be 18 or older and treat people with respect. There is a short application and approvals usually happen pretty fast.
18+ No Reset Long Term SMP

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill No Reset Towny SMP

GamerHub Towny is a newer Towny SMP that started as a streaming server and now it is trying to grow into a bigger community.
It has a no reset world and the vibe is pretty chill. Griefing and stealing are not allowed so your stuff is meant to stay safe. PvP is not a huge deal here but people still get competitive when it comes to grinding.
You can level up with an ingame ranking system that uses ingame money. There is dynmap so you can see the world. It also has jobs plus MCMMO skills. Players can set warps and run shops and there is a sell only server shop.
It supports version 1.21.10 or similar and it also has a Bedrock port.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCozy Whitelisted Semi Vanilla SMP

GlowySMP is a brand new whitelisted semi vanilla SMP that feels cozy and relaxed. It is made for players who want to play at their own pace and still have some cool progression.
Java and Bedrock players can both join so friends can play together. The server has an economy system with player warps and player shops plus land claims so your builds stay safe.
You can mess with custom enchants and do jobs and try PyroFishing. There are community events a resource world a PvP toggle and mobcatchers. Griefing is not allowed and the server is actively moderated to keep things friendly.
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