I found MinecraftOffline and it is a lifesteal anarchy server where fights matter a lot. If you die you lose hearts so people play careful or they go full chaos.
It runs on version 1.21.11 and it has a zero reset policy so your progress stays. The server is hosted in Finland so it should feel good for players in Europe.
It also has custom plugins so it is not just plain vanilla. This one feels like a place for raiding and PvP and messy survival all the time.
EU Lifesteal Anarchy No Resets
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I found a server called MinecraftOffline and it is all about lifesteal and anarchy survival.
It runs on version 1.21.11 so it feels up to date. The play style is pretty wild since you can fight a lot and the lifesteal part makes every fight feel risky.
It also has a zero reset policy so worlds are meant to stay. It is hosted in Finland which should be nice for players in Europe.
They also say it uses custom plugins and the server is running on strong hardware so it should handle busy moments better.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP