Farmlands SMP is a cozy survival server with a small community feel and it is whitelisted so people take it seriously.
The main world is meant to last so your base and big projects actually matter and you can play slow without feeling rushed.
There is also a separate resource world that resets sometimes so you can grab materials without wrecking the place you live.
The server is strict about no griefing no stealing and no toxicity. It stays close to vanilla with a few quality of life changes and a custom advancement pack for extra things to do.
The economy is player driven so you can trade or run a shop. There are no ranks and no pay to win stuff so it feels fair.
