NovaMC is a vanilla 18 plus server with a friendly community that feels like a place to chill after real life stuff. The players are a mix of miners builders and redstone people so you can probably find your kind of group.
The world is huge at 250k by 250k so there is tons of room to explore build and grind. People team up for raids and big building projects and just hang out.
It stays mostly vanilla but it has some plugins and datapacks to make things easier and more fun. I saw stuff like Dungeons and Taverns Timber one player sleep anti enderman grief and even tamable foxes.
