I found a modded Minecraft server called The Old Age and it is made to be friendly even if you are new and still learning
It has Create for building cool machines and it also has Create Numismaticks so there is a coin style money thing
There is Deeper and Darker for more spooky exploring plus Creeper Overhaul to change up creepers and Enderite for upgrades
It also has voice chat so you can talk to people while you play
The Old Age Modded Adventure Server
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRealm of Thrones Kingdoms SMP
Realm of Thrones is a small crossplay SMP where the main thing is building a kingdom and growing it over time. The world is meant to keep evolving and the community side is a big deal.
You can push for power and try to become the strongest empire then go conquer other groups that want to fight. If you are more chill you can build a peaceful nation and focus on trade partners and allies so you can still win with strategy.
There is a money and play time based ranking system so you can rise through the ranks and gain more access and prestige. You can also use configurable tech parts to make factories and try to become a big industry player.
It has lots of quality of life stuff to keep you busy like fishing for rare fish to sell and testing your luck with crates and using the server shop. You can make your own shop too and take jobs that pay you for playing while you level them up. McMMO is part of the grind and there are also around 25 new quests that just got launched as a test with more planned later.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP