I found Anarchy.ae and it is a long term semi anarchy survival server that does not reset the world. The map is about 4 months old and it keeps growing every day.
PvP raiding and griefing are part of the server so you have to be ready for danger. It still tries to keep things fair by enforcing vanilla movement for both Java and Bedrock players.
There is no pay to win and no kits and no land claims. It has tpa and homes you get from voting.
The server runs on a dedicated machine in Germany so it stays smooth. Moderation is active too and they stop spam hate speech and server breaking exploits.
The community is small which makes it good for groups that want to build something that actually lasts.
No Wipes Semi Anarchy Vanilla Survival
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCustom Lifesteal SMP Limited Slots
I found a custom Lifesteal server that is being built by the owner and their dev with their own coded plugins.
It is aiming for a max of 20 members so it should feel more close and competitive. Alts are not allowed and they plan to use an alt check so people do not exploit the lifesteal system.
Applications open Saturday and close when the server releases on Sunday.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP