WithTheCat is a modded Minecraft community that has been around for more than 13 years and it really feels like a long running world of friends.

The server is hosted in Finland on strong hardware so it is made for long sessions and big modded worlds. Right now they run NeoTech Reborn Vault Hunters and their own custom WithTheCat Second Edition modpack. The focus is on expert mode style play so it is meant for people who enjoy harder progression and deep modpacks.

The community is small but very close. They talk about being more like a family than just random players. New players do not fill out boring forms. Instead you write an introduction about yourself. If you come in alone you write at least 300 words. If a friend already inside vouches for you then 50 words is enough. You share your name age and what you like so people can know you better.

They want mature players who like real conversation or at least love talking about games. You do not have to share personal stuff about your day if you do not want to. The point is to be open and respectful and to join a group that likes playing together for a long time.

Overall this server is about modded expert mode strong friendships and building stories over years not just a quick visit.