I found MinecraftOffline and it is a lifesteal anarchy server where fights matter a lot. If you die you lose hearts so people play careful or they go full chaos.
It runs on version 1.21.11 and it has a zero reset policy so your progress stays. The server is hosted in Finland so it should feel good for players in Europe.
It also has custom plugins so it is not just plain vanilla. This one feels like a place for raiding and PvP and messy survival all the time.
