I found a community based survival server that is whitelisted and aimed at mature players. It is built for people who like to work together and make a world they can stick with for a long time.
The gameplay is vanilla first with a few quality of life changes. Phantoms are turned off and endermen cannot mess up your builds and shulkers drop double shells.
The world border starts small and grows every day and it is currently 5000 by 5000. They also use Simple Voice Chat so you can talk while you play.
They focus on anti grief protection and respectful standards. They also plan to do community events later.
