LifeEater SMP is a semi vanilla survival server with a lifesteal feature. If you kill another player you can take their heart so fights feel serious and risky.
It has PVP and also PVE so you can battle players or just try to survive the world. There is no TPA and no homes so you have to travel the normal way.
The rules are pretty chill and it is mostly just no cheating and no exploiting. The owners are active and there are active players too.
There is voice chat if you want it. The server is planned to stay small around 15 to 20 players and it opens once enough people join.
