I found Dazecraft and it is a 1.21.10 semi vanilla township SMP that is all about building and community.
It is a small close knit server with friendly players so it feels chill and welcoming. People make player owned towns and focus on decorating farming and exploring.
There are community markets plus shops and jobs. The server also does fun events and it sounds like the main goal is to build cool looking places together and enjoy the kind community.
