I found Malgazar SMP and it is a chill survival server where people are not supposed to mess up your builds. It is meant to feel friendly and active and it runs on Purpur. The server is hosted in the UK and it uses Minecraft 1.21.11.
The rules are serious about no griefing and no stealing and no scamming. PvP is not allowed unless both people agree and slurs and drama are not allowed. X ray cheats seed maps and duping glitches are also not allowed and you are not supposed to harm other peoples pets or animals. If you break rules you can get locked in a cage for some time or get banned.
There are some QOL stuff like keep inventory and explosions not breaking blocks. There is veinminer and mcmmo skills and a mod that can roll back grief and show who interacted with blocks. You can also teleport to other players. Fishing has extra rare loot and the world border is set to 15k with outer end islands resetting every week.
It usually has around 13 players online and about 400 overall. Most people live near the hub around -1k -1k and the Java and Bedrock IP info is shared in the Discord.
