I found GamerHub Towny and it feels like a chill Towny SMP that started out as a streaming server and now it is trying to grow bigger.
Griefing and stealing are not allowed and the world never resets so your builds can stay for the long run. The community seems welcoming and ready to help new players and a lot of players are in the Oceania region.
The server leans mostly player economy with ranks you can get using in game money. It also has Dynmap player warps and player shops plus a sell only server shop. You can do jobs and use MCMMO and there is a player built market too.
They say they get around 25 daily active players and it gets most active when the owner streams on twitch with 8 or more online sometimes. The listed version is 1.21.10 or similar.
Chill No Reset Towny SMP
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This is a community centered SMP that feels like a Hermitcraft style world. It is made by the players for the players and the goal is to keep the vanilla experience while still letting the community help it grow.
There is a diamond based economy with a shopping district. You will also see public builds and big projects that people work on together.
Proximity chat is a big thing here and a lot of players actually use it. There are homes and some cosmetic and quality of life plugins too and they get added from community requests and polls.
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