MinecraftOffline is a laid back EU server that still has real danger when you fight. It uses custom plugins to make survival feel different without being confusing.
You can set a home and teleport back when you want. You can also send teleport requests to other players. Night can be skipped when players vote for it.
The big twist is lifesteal. You can gain hearts by killing other players and you lose hearts when you die. If you run out of hearts you get banned. New players get a one hour grace period so they will not lose hearts.
PvP has rules built into the server too. Commands get blocked during fights and combat logging gets punished by replacing the player with a killable NPC that can drop their items. There is also some anti speed cheat protection and chat spam blocking.
There is an in game shop that uses vote tokens for custom name colours and custom MOTDs. The server also tracks playtime plus kills and deaths and gives rewards at milestones.
