ArcticMC is a new survival server that mixes Towny and factions. It feels chill but there is still pvp and territory stuff if you want action.
You can build a town then make allies or take land for your own group. They also use an honor system for fights and it is explained in their rules.
McMMO is on so you level up skills while you play. You can unlock special abilities at higher levels.
The world uses tectonic generation so the terrain looks big and realistic with mountains and valleys. There are also custom items and even furniture but they plan chunk limits to help with lag.
The community is meant to be calm and friendly so you can grind build or just hang out.
