Lavender SMP is a whitelist Java server on 1.21.11 and it runs on hard mode. It is 18+ and lgbtq+ friendly and it feels like a close knit group that likes building and talking.
It uses Simple Voice Chat so you can hop in when people are chatting and just hang out. There are quality of life add ons like AFK Display and Anti Enderman Grief plus fun extras like More Mob Heads Player Head Drops and Mini Blocks.
It also has DiscordSRV and Double Shulker Shells so storage runs feel a bit nicer.
18+ Whitelist SMP With Voice Chat
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPWhitelist Vanilla SMP For Mature Players
The Eternal Region is a whitelisted SMP that feels like it is made for people who want a calm place to play and actually know the folks around them. It is focused on community and long term survival with steady progress instead of random public server chaos.
It stays vanilla first but it has a few quality of life changes. Phantoms are turned off and endermen cannot mess up builds and you get double shulker shells. The world border starts small and grows every day and right now it is at 5000 by 5000.
The server also uses Simple Voice Chat so players can talk while playing. There are anti grief protections and the vibe is respectful. They are looking for 18 plus players who are friendly and want a world they can invest in for a long time.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP